Hey folx! I’m interested in all genders

First name

aj

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

First off, I’m interested in people. Gender is not a binary for me, and I am open to meeting anyone who clicks. Additionally while I am looking for a primary partner/person, I am open to ENM and poly leaning in theory.

I like cuddles and am up for cuddles with friends and baes.

Being disabled and facing challenges that come with trying to date has done a lot for my self esteem some days. But here I am, authentically myself even when it is a little, ok, far from the mainstream norm.

I like to have fun but struggle with pain, fatigue and other health issues. That’s being said, I want to find a partnership to enjoy the beautiful gift of life. My heart seeks another heart to: find bright moments, celebrate, take gentle walks, comfort, be comforted, grow with.

Are you wanting someone to text you randomly or not so randomly? Maybe you live close enough for social distance coffee? Yeah, I’m ready for love but I’m also looking to widen my circle of friends. COVID has made my spirit ache for community and love in new ways.

So send a message. Tell me something that makes you smile or feel passionate about. Be you.

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I love: crafting, sewing, binging Netflix, going on adventures, cuddling cats, laughing, singing in the shower/car/kitchen, musical theater, painting, cooking, intimate conversations, going to the beach, art, music, life.

Not a fan of: never having enough energy, cleaning (but I do it), laundry, electronic dependency, the US healthcare system, extreme politics, small talk, sports ball, racism, pee on the toilet seat, socks, pain, wet socks.

Sign

Capricorn

My Body Type Is

Curvy

My Height Is

5' 0 (1.52 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Scarred, Strategically Placed Tattoo, Visible Tattoo

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat, Other

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Unemployed

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

On disability

I Live

With Kid(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

Yes - But Non Tobacco

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing, Strange

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Photography, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Games, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards, Camping, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Dress-up, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Hot beverages, giggles and maybe a gentle meandering

I've Always Wanted To Try

Skydiving

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

My Religion Is

Other

My Goal In Life Is

Love, live, grow, connect and not take people for granted.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick, Sadistic

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Animation

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Vacuum Cleaner Noises, Blues, Jazz, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Anthology, Biography, Business, Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Reference, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, I'm An Author, Romance, Erotica, Supernatural

My Idea Of Fun Is

What helps me to appreciate life the best I can in any moment. Snuggles, music, adventure, laughter, board games, singing, quilting, buying craft supplies, cooking, not cleaning…

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Money, Spontaneity, Oddities, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Someone who is kind,funny, and willing to sing. Also someone able to sustain their quality of life financially (ie not in debt and able to pay their way if needed but doesn’t need to be “rich”.)

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed, Other, Doesnt Matter