All of the good ones aren’t gone.

First name

Jay

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I’m legally blind, and have been since birth. I’m searching for a life-long “other half”, someone to hang out with, to share with, and to play with. I love people watching, so be ready for fairs, carnivals, festivals, and the like.  I’m also into just sitting and talking over dinner, or spending hours being amateur movie critics.  Star Trek and Fried Green Tomato’s…I go either way!

I’m slightly nerdy, pretty plain, practical, laid back, and down to earth with older-fashioned morals and values.  I enjoy quality things, and quality people. I’m mentally rock-solid, I don’t panic, and I have a fuse more than a mile long. I’m not into video games, nor am I into sports; I'm not the rugged outdoorsy Alpha hunter fisher hiking kayaking type.  You might talk me into camping, but you’ll definitely have to bribe me :)..  I'm the responsible intelligent educated "trove of information and random trivia, can carry on stimulating conversation about almost anything for hours" type. I speak fluently in movie quotes and references.

I generally make sure that everyone else is taken care of first, and I'll take care of you when you're sick. :)  I’ve been a professional massage therapist; I’ll let your mind wander.  I’m also a pretty fantastic listener...so I’ve heard. I absolutely love thunderstorms and rainy days.

I'm not really outgoing, more reserved actually (INTJ for those interested).  I'm a really great guy to have around in a crisis. I can change a tire...but AAA is much easier, and they have bigger tools!......ummm, wait????? :))))

I have a uniquely dry sense of humor, with seemingly impeccable comedic timing (see above!); I’m the one who will make you spray coke out your nose or wet your pants...or both...at the same time...while driving!! (sorry, it just happens that way) :). I'm certainly mature, but I can be a total cornball depending on who I'm with and what I'm doing.  I've been called a dork more times than I can count.

I’m generally neat, clean, and kept. I look my age, but I’ve earned it.  Much of it is by design though; I play the roll of distinguished and trusted professional, so I must look and act the part; my spirit however, Is still somewhere in its late 30's, early 40’s.  I’m youthful, I still watch 80’s movies and cartoons, and I'm a moderate SciFi geek!

I don't play mind-games, and I don't stray from my girl. I don’t like drama, I really don't like foul language, and I deplore "crude".  I don't like those with a snarky sarcastic attitude, nor those who obsessively complain about everything.  I am not a fan of heavy make-up (ok, make-up at all really, I like the real person), fake hair, fake nails, tattoos, piercings, loud, obnoxious, smokers, drinkers, or drug users.   And manners matter.

I'm all about calm, peaceful, and quiet...less the occasional "just gotta crank it" tunes; I'm also usually up for a good concert or show.  As you might imagine by now, I’m not into bars at all.  When I'm home, you'll most likely find Pandora on the TV, playing light jazz...”at a reasonable volume".

Sign

Sagittarius

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 11 (1.8 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Separated

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

No

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Silver

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

My Job Title Is

Chiropractic Doctor

I Live

Alone, With Pet(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly, Comedic

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Dining, Learning, Tv, Movies, Internet

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Tv, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Whatever we may have in common. I might say RenFest, but that may be just a bit too much for a first date, so maybe a local festival or county fair to test the waters, then we can go all-in! :). I bet we can think of something/

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, Perfect, Obscure, Goofy

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

Start slow, and taper off!

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure

On Tv, I Always Watch

Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Family

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Vacuum Cleaner Noises, Jazz, New age, Ambient, Soul, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

I Don't Like Reading

My Idea Of Fun Is

Not working or going to school. I love “people watching”, so you might find me at the mall, or a carnival. I really wanna go on a cruise. “Paying around” is also usually pretty fun:)

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

What Do You Look For?

I'm old fashioned, so I'm going to be very honest. Im looking for someone who’s young, small, and white. Education, wealth, and status aren't that important to me. I'm searching for a best friend; someone who’s all "Girl", and enjoys being a girl. Simple, shy, quiet, generally conservative. The “home-body bookworm nerd girl next door” type with a pleasant way about her. One who looks cute in a simple dress and flats, or sweats and converse. A wholesome soul who's sweet, caring, happy, fun, playful, soft, and loyal who still gets excited about birthdays and Christmas. I love a girl who can pull off double braids, and who might know ASMR.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Intimate, Committed