want2 c u clearly, abandon expectations
phizappa108
Dayton, Ohio | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Many people, when looking for a relationship mainly are looking mostly to satisfy and fulfill their own needs and expectations. I must admit I'm doing that too. That desire is part of a relationship most often. There's nothing wrong with that, except when one lets that veil cloud my vision of who the person I'm looking at really is. I don't mean to sound arrogant like " I'm above that sort of thing" I'm not. While looks have some importance to me, I want to see the inner you, looking for one the way I like to see myself, " witty, passionate, loving, loyal, a little bit crazy, a little bit bad." I love films. Out of curiosity, do you know which one that quote is from? It doesn't matter really, but if so it might make a match a bit more fun. Let's play, but not for dare, rather truth :-)
I will consider a dare, or just about anything to make things more fun, but obviously the line is do no harm, and I intend to hold myself to that.
I am a Buddhist, but don't much care what religion you may believe in, or if you consider yourself a believer at all. I have learned many meaningful, wise, and helpful things from others regardless of religious belief. If you like to talk about those sorts of things, it is welcome but not a dire need. While my actions (on a good day) are greatly influenced by my beliefs, i also believe I have no right, nor do I have any desire to foist my beliefs on anyone else. I believe that short of doing harm, anything that a person chooses that helps make themselves, and others if possible, happy, you have every freedom and right to do whenever that is, without judgment or interference from me or anyone else.
A basic human truth: everyone wants to be happy! So let's talk about you. What makes you happy (even if it is a little bit crazy and a little bit bad)?
A basic human truth: everyone wants to be happy! So let's talk about you. What makes you happy (even if it is a little bit crazy and a little bit bad)?
If you want talk about me, that's just fine. I am truthsome because that's the best way to be. No head games, life is too short. Although, as you might have guessed by now, my mine does tend to wander. So there is your fair warning. It can take a bit of patience to get know me, but if you get a feeling than I am " your style" I think you'll find that patience is more than worth the effort. No man is perfect (although they say there are exceptions to prove every rule :-)), but I am a good man, and I'll do my very best to be good to you. Of course, because I want to put my best foot forward in taking a step toward you but also because that simply is when every person deserves
That's all I can think to say for now. Am I talking too much already? :-) come back.
I will consider a dare, or just about anything to make things more fun, but obviously the line is do no harm, and I intend to hold myself to that.
I am a Buddhist, but don't much care what religion you may believe in, or if you consider yourself a believer at all. I have learned many meaningful, wise, and helpful things from others regardless of religious belief. If you like to talk about those sorts of things, it is welcome but not a dire need. While my actions (on a good day) are greatly influenced by my beliefs, i also believe I have no right, nor do I have any desire to foist my beliefs on anyone else. I believe that short of doing harm, anything that a person chooses that helps make themselves, and others if possible, happy, you have every freedom and right to do whenever that is, without judgment or interference from me or anyone else.
A basic human truth: everyone wants to be happy! So let's talk about you. What makes you happy (even if it is a little bit crazy and a little bit bad)?
A basic human truth: everyone wants to be happy! So let's talk about you. What makes you happy (even if it is a little bit crazy and a little bit bad)?
If you want talk about me, that's just fine. I am truthsome because that's the best way to be. No head games, life is too short. Although, as you might have guessed by now, my mine does tend to wander. So there is your fair warning. It can take a bit of patience to get know me, but if you get a feeling than I am " your style" I think you'll find that patience is more than worth the effort. No man is perfect (although they say there are exceptions to prove every rule :-)), but I am a good man, and I'll do my very best to be good to you. Of course, because I want to put my best foot forward in taking a step toward you but also because that simply is when every person deserves
That's all I can think to say for now. Am I talking too much already? :-) come back.
Sign
Cancer
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Fit
My Height Is
5' 3 (1.6 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Never Married
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Arms
Body Art
Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Community Participation Specialist
I Make This Much In A Year
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Socially
I Drink
No
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Anti-social, Boisterous, Comedic, Dark, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Reserved, Shy, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Computers, Dining, Exercising, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Music, Reading, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Playing Dress-up, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Stuffing our faces with good sushi or other Asian Food, over a good conversation getting to know you, watching children play at the outdoor fountain at the mall, a solid sugar buzz for dessert, then maybe a movie if you feel comfortable sitting near me in a dark space trying to tell me to shut the hell up and watch already :-), also finding out whatever you feel comfortable with b4,during or after any of that
I've Always Wanted To Try
Along the road trip to a place I've never been before. Finding how our mutual interests match to see what a good place would be for both of us, or perhaps the journey itself would be more to the point
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Obscure
Views
My Religion Is
Buddhist / Taoist
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To work myself out of a job as a community organizer, and help to create a world where people with jobs like mine don't need to exist because people are getting what they need to live and be happy. Also finding some small measure of intimate happiness for myself without driving someone else crazy in the process
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Movies, I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Documentary, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Blues, Classical, Jazz, Reggae, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read
Classic, Fiction, Philosophy, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
Helping others laugh or find some happiness, even if that means I have to play the fool sometimes to get a laugh. Sometimes it's even more fun that way because I get a laugh at myself too
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Power, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed