Introverted, kind loner wondering...

Etunimi

Michael

Osaan puhua

Englanti

Kuvailisin itseäni

The "wondering" in my headline refers to my beginning to wonder about a relationship connection in my future. I do a great deal of volunteer work with people, usually in groups and often very intense heart work, so I am not people aversive. I am more of an introvert and do value my alone time.

I have been widowed for almost 17 years, and my deceased husband remains a very current presence in my life. No, there are no seances involved. That is simply the kind of deep connection we continue to have and will always have.

I continue to work on a very selective basis, and my work also involves working with people who are either struggling or who are at a major crossroad and are seeking insight and nonjudgemental, compassionate guidance. I am honoured to be able to work with people who are courageous enough to do this, often difficult, personal work. This describes the people with whom I work as a volunteer or professionally.

I admire vulnerability in myself and others and seek the kind of openness that nurtures that kind of vulnerability. You are open-hearted and do your best to live as undefended as possible while, at the same time, you recognize that the world is a place in which many others need defending and support. You can become quite fiercely passionate about being there for those in need. This includes people you don't know, as well as those near and dear to you.

You are also comfortable reaching out your own hand to another to seek support if you need it. You have the courage to be vulnerable and real.

You are inclined to be kind to others and value kindness in others. You know how varied the human condition can show up in our world and do your best to show compassion to others as well as to yourself. You know that your life is much more about your perspective and your choices than it is about "them" and what "they" do.

I'm certain I could write more, and I feel quite finished for now. if you got through all of this, good for you and your attention span!

Continuing to (curiously) wonder,
Michael

Kirjaudu

Härkä

Vartalonmallini on

Hoikka

Pituuteni on

5' 11 (1.8 m)

Silmienvärini on

Pähkinä

Etninen taustani on

Valkoihoinen

Aviosäätyni on

Leski

Minulla on lapsia

Kyllä - Ei kotona

Haluan lapsia

Ei

Hiukseni ovat

Suolaa ja Pippuria

Minulla on yksi tai kaksi tällaista

Ei lemmikeitä

Olen valmis muuttamaan

Ei

Koulutukseni taso on

Korkeakoulu tutkinto

Työllisyys tilanteeni on

Yrittäjä

Erikoistun

Muu

Asun

Yksin

Kotona

Kaikki on rauhallista

Tupakoin

Ei

Juon

Ei

Yläasteella olin

Matti Meikäläinen

Sosiaalinen käyttäytymiseni

Varautunut

Kiinnostuksen kohteet ja Harrastukseni ovat

Uskonto / Hengellisyys, Lukeminen, Oppiminen, Vapaaehtoistoiminta

Käsitykseni mukavasta ajanvietteestä on

Kotona oleskelu, Elokuvat, Kirjan Lukeminen, Konserttiin meneminen

Unelma treffini olisivat

I have no idea. It's been a very long time since I have even thought about "a date". Probably a really good, authentic conversation.

Olen aina halunnut kokeilla

Playing an instrument of some kind and becoming a good, amateur photographer (I do have a good camera).

Kaverini kuvailevat minun olevan

Joku jota muut kadehtii

Uskontoni on

Hengellinen mutta ei uskonnollinen

Käyn säännöllisesti

Ei koskaan

Tavoitteeni elämässäni on

to be open to the endless and unknown possibilities and do that while living in the now.

Minun tapainen huumori on

Älykäs

Televisiosta katson

Uutiset, Dokumentit, Draamat, Tilannekomediat, Elokuvat

Kun menen elokuviin, lähden katsomaan

Romanssi, Draama, Dokumentti

Kun kuuntelen musiikkia, kuuntelen aina

Klassinen, Jazz musiikki

Kun luen, luen aina

Kaunokirjallisuus, Filosofia, Runous

Käsitykseni hauskanpidosta on

I can think of "enjoying" myself, but I'm not as sure about having "fun". I do enjoy a really good conversation. I do enjoy a good book (mostly audible ones right now). I enjoy nature in all of its moods and forms. I do feel "fun" when I'm FaceTiming with my grandkids, and they are having fun at my expense. It's fun playing at being the "butt" of their jokes.

Mikä sinua vetää puoleensa?

Nokkela, Spontaanisuus, Herkkyys, Empatia, Ajattelevaisuus, Viisaus

Mitä etsit?

Heart/Soul connection and the potential for a deepening connection. Authenticity and Kindness. One who believes in his own self-care.

Minkälaista suhdetta etsit?

Muu