Introverted, kind loner wondering...
LivingFully
North Vancouver, British Columbia | Man Letar efter Man
Grundläggande information
Förnamn
Michael
Jag kan tala
Engelska
Jag skulle beskriva mig själv som
The "wondering" in my headline refers to my beginning to wonder about a relationship connection in my future. I do a great deal of volunteer work with people, usually in groups and often very intense heart work, so I am not people aversive. I am more of an introvert and do value my alone time.
I have been widowed for almost 17 years, and my deceased husband remains a very current presence in my life. No, there are no seances involved. That is simply the kind of deep connection we continue to have and will always have.
I continue to work on a very selective basis, and my work also involves working with people who are either struggling or who are at a major crossroad and are seeking insight and nonjudgemental, compassionate guidance. I am honoured to be able to work with people who are courageous enough to do this, often difficult, personal work. This describes the people with whom I work as a volunteer or professionally.
I admire vulnerability in myself and others and seek the kind of openness that nurtures that kind of vulnerability. You are open-hearted and do your best to live as undefended as possible while, at the same time, you recognize that the world is a place in which many others need defending and support. You can become quite fiercely passionate about being there for those in need. This includes people you don't know, as well as those near and dear to you.
You are also comfortable reaching out your own hand to another to seek support if you need it. You have the courage to be vulnerable and real.
You are inclined to be kind to others and value kindness in others. You know how varied the human condition can show up in our world and do your best to show compassion to others as well as to yourself. You know that your life is much more about your perspective and your choices than it is about "them" and what "they" do.
I'm certain I could write more, and I feel quite finished for now. if you got through all of this, good for you and your attention span!
Continuing to (curiously) wonder,
Michael
I have been widowed for almost 17 years, and my deceased husband remains a very current presence in my life. No, there are no seances involved. That is simply the kind of deep connection we continue to have and will always have.
I continue to work on a very selective basis, and my work also involves working with people who are either struggling or who are at a major crossroad and are seeking insight and nonjudgemental, compassionate guidance. I am honoured to be able to work with people who are courageous enough to do this, often difficult, personal work. This describes the people with whom I work as a volunteer or professionally.
I admire vulnerability in myself and others and seek the kind of openness that nurtures that kind of vulnerability. You are open-hearted and do your best to live as undefended as possible while, at the same time, you recognize that the world is a place in which many others need defending and support. You can become quite fiercely passionate about being there for those in need. This includes people you don't know, as well as those near and dear to you.
You are also comfortable reaching out your own hand to another to seek support if you need it. You have the courage to be vulnerable and real.
You are inclined to be kind to others and value kindness in others. You know how varied the human condition can show up in our world and do your best to show compassion to others as well as to yourself. You know that your life is much more about your perspective and your choices than it is about "them" and what "they" do.
I'm certain I could write more, and I feel quite finished for now. if you got through all of this, good for you and your attention span!
Continuing to (curiously) wonder,
Michael
Stjärntecken
Oxen
Utseende & situation
Min kroppstyp är
Smal
Min längd är
183 cm
Mina ögon är
Brungröna
Min etnicitet är
Kaukasisk
Mitt civilstånd är
Änka/änkling
Jag har barn
Ja - inte hemma
Jag vill ha barn
Nej
Mitt hår är
Gråsprängt
Jag har en eller flera av dessa
Inga husdjur
Villig att flytta
Nej
Status
Min utbildningsnivå är
Universitetsexamen
Min nuvarande anställningsstatus är
Egen-företagare
Min specialitet är
Annat
Jag bor
Ensam
Hemma
Allt är lugnt
Jag är rökare
Nej
Jag dricker
Nej
Personlighet
I skolan var jag
Medelmåttan
Mitt beteende i sociala sammanhang är
Reserverad
Mina intressen och hobbies är
Religion/Spiritualitet, Läsa, Lärande, Volontärarbete
Att ha kul innebär för mig
Stanna hemma, Bio, Läsa en bok, Gå på konsert
Den idealiska första dejten för mig skulle vara att
I have no idea. It's been a very long time since I have even thought about "a date". Probably a really good, authentic conversation.
Jag har alltid velat prova
Playing an instrument of some kind and becoming a good, amateur photographer (I do have a good camera).
Mina vänner tycker att jag är
Någon de vill vara
Åsikter
Min religion är
Spirituell men inte religiös
Jag går i kyrkan
Aldrig
Mitt mål i livet är
to be open to the endless and unknown possibilities and do that while living in the now.
Min humor är
Klok
Smak
På TV tittar jag alltid på
Nyheter, Dokumentärer, Drama, Dokusåpor, Filmer
När jag går på bio ser jag alltid
Romantik, Drama, Dokumentärer
När jag lyssnar på musik lyssnar jag alltid på
Klassisk, Jazz
När jag läser föredrar jag följande:
Fiktion, Filiosofi, Poesi
Det jag tycker är kul är
I can think of "enjoying" myself, but I'm not as sure about having "fun". I do enjoy a really good conversation. I do enjoy a good book (mostly audible ones right now). I enjoy nature in all of its moods and forms. I do feel "fun" when I'm FaceTiming with my grandkids, and they are having fun at my expense. It's fun playing at being the "butt" of their jokes.
Letar efter
Vad tycker du är attraktivt?
Kvickhet, Spontanitet, Känslighet, Empati, Omtänksamhet, Intelligens
Vad letar du efter?
Heart/Soul connection and the potential for a deepening connection. Authenticity and Kindness. One who believes in his own self-care.
Vilken form av förhållande söker du?
Annat