Introverted, kind loner wondering...
LivingFully
North Vancouver, British Columbia | Мужчина Ищу Мужчину
Базовая информация
Имя
Michael
Говорю на языках:
Английский
Я бы описал(а) себя как
The "wondering" in my headline refers to my beginning to wonder about a relationship connection in my future. I do a great deal of volunteer work with people, usually in groups and often very intense heart work, so I am not people aversive. I am more of an introvert and do value my alone time.
I have been widowed for almost 17 years, and my deceased husband remains a very current presence in my life. No, there are no seances involved. That is simply the kind of deep connection we continue to have and will always have.
I continue to work on a very selective basis, and my work also involves working with people who are either struggling or who are at a major crossroad and are seeking insight and nonjudgemental, compassionate guidance. I am honoured to be able to work with people who are courageous enough to do this, often difficult, personal work. This describes the people with whom I work as a volunteer or professionally.
I admire vulnerability in myself and others and seek the kind of openness that nurtures that kind of vulnerability. You are open-hearted and do your best to live as undefended as possible while, at the same time, you recognize that the world is a place in which many others need defending and support. You can become quite fiercely passionate about being there for those in need. This includes people you don't know, as well as those near and dear to you.
You are also comfortable reaching out your own hand to another to seek support if you need it. You have the courage to be vulnerable and real.
You are inclined to be kind to others and value kindness in others. You know how varied the human condition can show up in our world and do your best to show compassion to others as well as to yourself. You know that your life is much more about your perspective and your choices than it is about "them" and what "they" do.
I'm certain I could write more, and I feel quite finished for now. if you got through all of this, good for you and your attention span!
Continuing to (curiously) wonder,
Michael
I have been widowed for almost 17 years, and my deceased husband remains a very current presence in my life. No, there are no seances involved. That is simply the kind of deep connection we continue to have and will always have.
I continue to work on a very selective basis, and my work also involves working with people who are either struggling or who are at a major crossroad and are seeking insight and nonjudgemental, compassionate guidance. I am honoured to be able to work with people who are courageous enough to do this, often difficult, personal work. This describes the people with whom I work as a volunteer or professionally.
I admire vulnerability in myself and others and seek the kind of openness that nurtures that kind of vulnerability. You are open-hearted and do your best to live as undefended as possible while, at the same time, you recognize that the world is a place in which many others need defending and support. You can become quite fiercely passionate about being there for those in need. This includes people you don't know, as well as those near and dear to you.
You are also comfortable reaching out your own hand to another to seek support if you need it. You have the courage to be vulnerable and real.
You are inclined to be kind to others and value kindness in others. You know how varied the human condition can show up in our world and do your best to show compassion to others as well as to yourself. You know that your life is much more about your perspective and your choices than it is about "them" and what "they" do.
I'm certain I could write more, and I feel quite finished for now. if you got through all of this, good for you and your attention span!
Continuing to (curiously) wonder,
Michael
Знак зодиака
Телец
Внешность и семейное положение
Телосложение
Худое
Мой рост
179 см
Мои глаза
Карие
Моя этническая принадлежность
Белый европеец/кавказец
Семейное положение
Вдова/вдовец
У меня есть дети
Да - живут с другим родителем
Хочу детей
Нет
Мои волосы
Соль и перец
Домашние животные
Нет животных
Хочу переехать
Нет
Статус
Образование
Высшее (магистр)
Работа/Учеба:
Работаю на себя
Род занятий
Другое
Живу
Один/одна
Дома
Все очень спокойно
Отношение к курению
Нет
Пью
Нет
Характер
В школе я был(а):
Ничего особенного
Мое социальное поведение
Сдержанное
Интересы и увлечения:
Религия, Чтение, Учеба, Волонтерство
Мое представление об отлично проведенном времени
Останусь дома, Фильмы, Чтение книг, Пойду на концерт
Идеально первое свидание
I have no idea. It's been a very long time since I have even thought about "a date". Probably a really good, authentic conversation.
Я всегда хотел попробовать
Playing an instrument of some kind and becoming a good, amateur photographer (I do have a good camera).
Друзья считают что я:
На кого они хотят быть похожими
Взгляды
Моя религия
Не поддерживаю религии
Посещение служб:
Никогда
Моя цель в жизни
to be open to the endless and unknown possibilities and do that while living in the now.
Мой юмор
Умный
Вкусы
По телевизору, я всегда смотрю
Новости, Документальное кино, Драма, Ситкомы, Фильмы
Предпочитаемые жанры фильмов:
Мелодрамы, Драмы, Документальные
Предпочитаемая музыка
Классика, Джаз
Я люблю читать:
Художественная литература, Философия, Поэзия
Мои идеи классного времяпрепровождения
I can think of "enjoying" myself, but I'm not as sure about having "fun". I do enjoy a really good conversation. I do enjoy a good book (mostly audible ones right now). I enjoy nature in all of its moods and forms. I do feel "fun" when I'm FaceTiming with my grandkids, and they are having fun at my expense. It's fun playing at being the "butt" of their jokes.
В поиске
Считаю привлекательным:
Остроумие, Спонтанность, Чувствительность, Сопереживание, Внимание, Интеллект
Что и кого ищете?
Heart/Soul connection and the potential for a deepening connection. Authenticity and Kindness. One who believes in his own self-care.
Ищу отношения типа:
Другое