Introverted, kind loner wondering...


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LivingFully

North Vancouver, British Columbia | Homme Cherchant Homme

Informations de base

Prénom
Michael
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
The "wondering" in my headline refers to my beginning to wonder about a relationship connection in my future. I do a great deal of volunteer work with people, usually in groups and often very intense heart work, so I am not people aversive. I am more of an introvert and do value my alone time.

I have been widowed for almost 17 years, and my deceased husband remains a very current presence in my life. No, there are no seances involved. That is simply the kind of deep connection we continue to have and will always have.

I continue to work on a very selective basis, and my work also involves working with people who are either struggling or who are at a major crossroad and are seeking insight and nonjudgemental, compassionate guidance. I am honoured to be able to work with people who are courageous enough to do this, often difficult, personal work. This describes the people with whom I work as a volunteer or professionally.

I admire vulnerability in myself and others and seek the kind of openness that nurtures that kind of vulnerability. You are open-hearted and do your best to live as undefended as possible while, at the same time, you recognize that the world is a place in which many others need defending and support. You can become quite fiercely passionate about being there for those in need. This includes people you don't know, as well as those near and dear to you.

You are also comfortable reaching out your own hand to another to seek support if you need it. You have the courage to be vulnerable and real.

You are inclined to be kind to others and value kindness in others. You know how varied the human condition can show up in our world and do your best to show compassion to others as well as to yourself. You know that your life is much more about your perspective and your choices than it is about "them" and what "they" do.

I'm certain I could write more, and I feel quite finished for now. if you got through all of this, good for you and your attention span!

Continuing to (curiously) wonder,
Michael
Signe
Taureau

Apparence & situation

Ma silhouette est
Mince
Ma taille est
5' 11 (1.8 m)
Mes yeux sont
Noisettes
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
Ma situation maritale est
Veuf/Veuve
J'ai des enfants
Oui - pas chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Non
Mes cheveux sont
Poivres et sel
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Pas d'animaux
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non

Statut

Mon niveau d'éducation est
Diplôme d'études supérieures
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Auto-entrepreneur
Mon domaine de compétence est
Autre
Je vis
Seul/e
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Non

Personnalité

Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Normal/e
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Réservé
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Religion/Spiritualité, Lecture, Apprendre, Bénévolat
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Lire, Aller à un concert
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
I have no idea. It's been a very long time since I have even thought about "a date". Probably a really good, authentic conversation.
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
Playing an instrument of some kind and becoming a good, amateur photographer (I do have a good camera).
Mes amis me décrivent comme
La personne qu'ils aimeraient être

Points de vue sur la vie

Ma religion c'est
Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses
Je vais à la messe
Jamais
Mon but dans la vie c'est
to be open to the endless and unknown possibilities and do that while living in the now.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent

Goûts

A la télévision, je regarde
Actualités, Documentaires, Drames, Sitcoms, Films
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Romantiques, Drames, Documentaires
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Classique, Jazz
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Fictions, Philosophie, Poésie
Mon idée du fun
I can think of "enjoying" myself, but I'm not as sure about having "fun". I do enjoy a really good conversation. I do enjoy a good book (mostly audible ones right now). I enjoy nature in all of its moods and forms. I do feel "fun" when I'm FaceTiming with my grandkids, and they are having fun at my expense. It's fun playing at being the "butt" of their jokes.

Recherchant un/e

Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Bon sens, Spontanéité, Sensibilité, Empathie, Délicatesse, Intelligence
Que recherchez-vous?
Heart/Soul connection and the potential for a deepening connection. Authenticity and Kindness. One who believes in his own self-care.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Autre